when our parents divorced, sold house and moved out I was in Florida

Even though I grew up with alcoholism, mental and sexual abuse, my parents decided to wait until my little brother was out of high school to divorce. It was a great favor they did for him.

So the time had come – it was the summer between my freshman and sophomore year of college. OK so lots of parents get divorced. I hope most do it with better communication. I remember things/crap just strewn everywhere. Basement full of crap – garage full of it. I had plans to drive to Florida with my fiance. We took our trip and when I got back, the house was not vacated anymore and I really had no place to live. My mom moved to a condo in that same town and my dad moved to a nearby town. I do not recollect them sitting down to tell me I was welcome to live with either one. Communicate never existed. I felt homeless but my fiance’s parents said to stay with them so I did for the summer.

~ by dysfunctionalfamily on January 1, 2008.